I love that there is a reason why some ppl have it and some don’t…
For example, ever told someone you have a crazy headache, like a chronic migraine condition, a late menstrual cycle, late on your rent, and they respond to you by stating that they have one too due to a hangover they are nursing? It’s just like that. Some people are not emotional intelligent and it becomes increasingly clear as a person gets older. By older, I am counting by weeks and never by year. Sometimes i ask, are NY’ers really emotional intelligent or do we lose it over time. How much subway vomit, urine, and bodega sandwiches can one person endure; caviat being that bodega sandwiches are untimately life saving and a necessity living in BK. Another example, telling someone they look tired. I mean…. This is definitely shade.com. Never say this to someone. Especially a female (we are probably tired of all the misogynistic BS in the universe…pay us more!). Sayin that to someone isn’t showing support or care, it’s just a slight given because it’s a great allibi. I mean. What if you feel great and well rested. BYEeeeee.
I’ve been reading so many articles which touch upon this topic. In essence, Emotional Intelligence is defined as:

R.I.P Miss Cleo, changing lives, one fraud at a time…